If you have a situation in your life, but don't know how to deal with it, and you need some friends to listen to you and give you advice, or at least share with you their opinions about that, you can use the ANONYMOUS form below to submit your question to the club members for discussion. Your question will be 100% ANONYMOUS, no one will ever know who you are, unless you prefer later to disclose yourself for some reason. The questions you send, will be presented to the club members for discussion, analysis and summary advice. The discussion results will be posted here, and you can, again, 100% ANONYMOUSLY access the site and read the club member answers and opinions.

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And here are your questions, answers to them, club members' feedback, opinions and advice

(The questions and answers may be lightly edited for grammar, punctuation, etc., to make them more reader friendly and understandable)

I like a guy. We have been going out for slightly over a two weeks. The problem is that I don't know how to continue our relationships. I can't understand whether his intentions are serious and genuine. If they are not, I need to stop dating him, because I need serious relationships and not just have fun.

Nina

"She needs to keep on dating with him for a month or so without any physical contacts, if you know what I mean, and see what happens: if he's still around, then most probably the intentions are serious, if not then..." - Francis

"She needs to introduce, or at least say she wants to introduce him to her brother(s), if she has any, if not, it's ok, it can be cousins, friends or just a test. If he doesn't run away, then he's serious, I think..." - Lucy

"If you like him - enjoy him, enjoy dating him, what's the problem, and don't think of things like that at this point. If he is serious, then ok, if not, then ok, too. You can't be sure that he's the one you want for serious stuff either, you've been going out for such a little period of time. Just enjoy your life, honey..." - Licka

I did something very bad, and I despise myself for having done that. But I have done that, and it's no use blaming myself constantly for that, so please try not to hate me to start with but try to help with advice. I did something with my friend's boyfriend. She is - or was - my best friend, and I don't know how that happened, on the spur of the moment, I guess. Please give me good advice as to what I should do now.

Kristine

"This is the worst thing she could've done to her friend, and actually how she can dare to call her friend after that. She's should just disappear from her life once and for all if she feels guilty, not to do that to her again in the future..." - Licka

"She's quite stupid I suppose, because this might have been a test for her, a test prepared by her friend. She failed the test, I suppose. So it is better for her to go and tell her friend, she's gonna know anyways, at least like that she'll have a chance..." - Francis

"If she were my friend and did that to me, I donno, maybe I would forgive her, after some time, very long time, years, I would say. It also depends on whether she's a kinda girl that looks at every guy or it just happened so this time..." - Cora

"I would never forgive her. Neither the boyfriend. I'd dump 'em all." - Anna

"I would just shut my mouth up, and hope it's not hitting the fan..." - Lila

"I would definitely tell her what happened, but to save our friendship, if I cared to save, I would at least say(lie) that I did that for her, to try to see what kinda person her boyfriend is and protect her maybe..." - Elle

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